Who Broke Your
Heart?
By Trevor
Emdon
Who Broke Your Heart?
Okay, this is a tough one. Stick with me, because
this is a bumpy ride.
Ready? Here we go…
If you’ve had your heart broken, you must
take responsibility if you’re ever going to get over it.
Phew! I said it! But read it carefully.
I didn’t say take the blame, I said
responsibility. They’re not the same thing. Responsibility is the ability
to respond – which means you can make different choices next time. Blame
is just being angry either at yourself, another or some intangible such as
God, the weather, your time of life and so forth. Not helpful, in the sense
that that doesn’t give you anything to work with.
To heal from heartbreak go back in your mind
to when you first met – your first awareness of attraction for this
other person. Whatever you saw in them was a direct reflection of whatever
was going on in you at the time. You’ll need to be brutally honest with
yourself. (Told you it was going to be a bumpy ride, didn’t I?)
Honestly, were you aware of a sense, for example,
of “he (or she) will do”? Did you in some way settle for second
best? If you did, you considered yourself second best!
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Did you think they were perfect, or in some way
better than you? Did you put him or her, mentally, on a pedestal? If you
did, once again you weren’t on equal terms, and sooner or later, they
were bound to fall from that lofty place!
Did you take love that was offered when you
weren’t sure you had it in equal measure to give back?
These are tough, tough questions, and I’m
not giving them out so you can beat yourself up. They’re so you can
polish up your image – to yourself.
Once you’ve done that, you’ll shine!
(What else would you expect from a polished image?)
If you’re serious about getting yourself
back on the road to love after a break-up, do yourself a favour and read
my book, “How To Love Again When Your Heart’s Been Broken.”
I can’t put the whole thing in this brief bulletin, but the link is
on my website: http://www.wizardofwisdom.com.
Just to make you feel a little better before
I leave you, though, think on this: whatever the other person did or didn’t
do that contributed to the break up, (or break down), of your relationship
is something they have to live with forever. You don’t!
As a very dear and wise friend once pointed out
to me: s**t sticks and it’s smelly. But if it’s someone else’s
you can wash it off and then you’ll be clean again. They, on the other
hand, will still be full of it!
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Trevor Emdon, (Wizard of Wisdom).
http://www.wizardofwisdom.com
Trevor is a senior mental health practitioner
based in the UK. He holds a diploma in NLP and teaches and writes extensively
on personal & spiritual development. His website is
http://www.wizardofwisdom.com
and his blog devoted to dating can be found at
http://art-of--seduction.blogspot.com
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